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15: Choices Today
All
students, regardless of race, nationality, ethnicity,
gender, sexual orientation, or physical appearance
have the right to feel safe and secure in school.
However, students are teased and bullied in
schools all over the world.
We
all want to belong and feel appreciated by our
friends. This is why it is often so difficult
for people to speak up when they have done something
wrong. It is easier to go along with the crowd;
most of us remain bystanders when bullying takes
place. The people around us actually reward
us in different ways for such behavior.
In
2001, 30% of American youth reported being involved
in some type of bullying, as a victim or perpetrator,
or both. Because not everybody reports bullying,
the real numbers are even higher.
Bullying
has many negative consequences, including loneliness,
trouble making friends, frustration, aggression,
lack of concentration, and bad grades. Many
victims of violence can become withdrawn or
seek revenge. In extreme cases, this has led
to suicide and murder.
All
of us have choices to make, sometimes very difficult
ones, when we see people getting hurt or teased
because they are different in some way.
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year-old Charity van Dommelen is sitting
in a train in Holland when she notices that
the two train conductors are being beaten
up by about 15 teenagers. She jumps out
of the train, shouts at the boys and jumps
in between them and the conductors. She
stalls them long enoughfor the police to
intervene, saving the conductors from serious
injury. |
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